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Sex and the Erotic Writer

While I’m on questions I consistently get asked (see Virginity and other disappointments), there is another fairly personal question that keeps raising its nosey head. It’s a question that no one would dare ask under usual circumstances (unless they were a very close friend or really drunk or both). But it seems the fact that I write about sex is a green light for people to cross all manner of social mores, one of them being, ‘So...is what you write based on your own sex life?’ (Cue waggling eyebrows).

I’m not sure which I find more distasteful, the question or the eyebrows.