Thursday, 10th April, 2014
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this collection of raw and honest personal memoirs about infidelity and adultery. By the time I'd finished the book I understood that, without exception, the story of infidelity/adultery is one of growth and self discovery.
Wednesday, 19th March, 2014
What has Barry White got to do with great sex? Tsk! You have to ask! It's all about the deep, sultry, breathy voice people. There's a reason women love him and it's not the glittery gold jacket...
Tuesday, 4th March, 2014
Among the many myths Western culture holds about sex, the massive orgasm resulting purely from intercourse is the biggest. Author, Jaqueline Hellyer, introduced me to the MAMA model of sex. Male Adolescent Masturbatory Attitude goes some way to explaining the epidemic of boredom with sex, particularly marital sex and our cultural preoccupation with achieving the Big Bang.
Monday, 18th November, 2013
Relationships are often strained by disagreements over what's fair in the bedroom - women want quality, men want quantity. Sex isn't an entitlement in a relationship. For men who want more frequent sex the formula is simple: be respectful and become the lover your partner longs for. If you can't be bothered then quit your bitching!
Wednesday, 25th September, 2013
As an erotic fiction writer, research can lead to some unexpected surprises. In erotic fiction, as in real estate, it's all about position.
Wednesday, 31st July, 2013
You’d think after forty (ahem) years on this earth I’d know pretty much all there is to know about my own body, right? Wrong. As an avid reader of sacred sexual texts like Tantra, Taoism and Karma Sutra, I thought I was pretty up (or down) with the multitudinous and fascinating functions of my lady bits.
Thursday, 25th July, 2013
Why do we have sex? Because we want to satisfy our longing for our object of desire? Because we’re in lurv? Because we want to feel good? Ultimately, is it because we want to experience orgasm?
Wednesday, 10th July, 2013
It never ceases to amaze me how much we allow our beliefs to limit our experience. And this is never truer when it comes to sex.
Wednesday, 5th June, 2013
She’s been described as sexy and dangerous and I want to be just like her!
Wednesday, 22nd May, 2013
While I’m on questions I consistently get asked (see Virginity and other disappointments), there is another fairly personal In the bedroom question that keeps raising its nosey head. It’s a question that no one would dare ask under usual circumstances (unless they were a very close friend or really drunk or both).
Friday, 10th May, 2013
Imagine this. You are talking to someone who is an acquaintance and, after listening to a short synopsis about your new book, they lean in close to your ear and whisper – ‘So, is that how you lost your virginity?’
Monday, 15th April, 2013
There must be something wrong with me. I don’t go squeamish when I hear the word ‘vagina’. Or any of the other anatomical references to female genitalia (vulva, labia, clitoris etc etc). Nor do I feel in any way shocked or offended when the words penis, testes or glans fall into a conversation (in context). But apparently I am an exception.
Thursday, 10th January, 2013
There are many great G's in life. 'The G' - a fond reference to the famous Melbourne Cricket Ground - and the G-spot - another fond reference to a highly sought after (and some would say imaginary) party spot in a woman's body - but today I want to celebrate a not so talked about G - the humble G-string.
Thursday, 22nd November, 2012
Thanks to Twitter I learned something pretty interesting about the pleasure potential in my body the other day. Now don’t get any ideas, this doesn’t involve dirty pictures and loose-topped pants!